I am not a good cook. I want to say that upfront, because most food content pretends otherwise, and I don’t want to pretend either. What I actually am is someone who likes trying recipes, mostly ones I find online, and slowly figuring out which ones are worth making again.

The one that still amazes me every time is lazy lasagna. No layering, no perfectly stacked noodles, just everything broken up and mixed together in one pan. It tastes like something that took real effort and it takes almost none.

Avocado toast with an egg on top is the other one I make more than I’d like to admit. It sounds almost too simple to count as a real meal, but it’s filling, it’s fast, and it’s hard to mess up even on a day when cooking anything at all feels like too much.

Here’s what I’ve actually learned trying all of this. A meal doesn’t feel simple or fancy because of how many steps it has. It feels that way because of the spices. The exact same eggs taste completely different with a little smoked paprika instead of nothing. The exact same rice becomes an actual meal with garlic, a splash of soy sauce, and whatever vegetables are already sitting in the fridge.

A few others that fit the same twenty minute window. Garlic butter shrimp over rice, which is mostly just waiting for a pan to heat up. Quesadillas, because cheese and a hot pan will save almost any dinner. A quick pasta with olive oil, garlic, and red pepper flakes, which sounds like nothing until you actually taste it.

None of these require real cooking skill. They require a well stocked spice drawer and enough honesty with yourself to admit that twenty minutes is a real amount of time to make dinner.

I’m still not a good cook. I just finally stopped needing to be one.

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